Kids will rise to your expectations
“They’re just teenagers. That’s what teenagers do.” It sounds harmless enough. Maybe even understanding. But when parents use this phrase to excuse disrespect, irresponsibility, or poor choices, they may be communicating something far more powerful: We don’t expect anything
Stop Negotiating at the Dinner Table: A Better Way to Handle Picky Eating
For many parents, dinner can quickly turn into a negotiation. “Just take one bite.” “You liked this yesterday.” “If you try this, I’ll make you something else.” It’s easy to fall into this pattern. We want our children to
Training Your Child to Listen & Obey the First Time
Have you ever found yourself saying the same thing to your child five, six, or even ten times before they finally listen? You ask them to clean up. Nothing happens. You ask again. Still nothing. You raise your voice.
Emotions vs. Behavior: Parenting Kids With Fortitude
Parenting gets challenging when big emotions take over. Your child is angry, frustrated, disappointed, or overwhelmed—and suddenly they're yelling, throwing things, or lashing out. It's tempting to shut down the emotion: “Stop crying.” “Calm down.” “There's nothing to be
Want Your Kids to Grow Up as Best Friends? Try the “Special Plate”
This month's post idea comes from Scott Donnell. Our oldest daughter and her family do something similar on birthdays, and our family had a birthday tradition of writing blessings on a large banner for the person celebrating a birthday,
Stop Fighting Over Chores: Teach Your Kids Skills Instead
If you’ve ever reminded your child to take out the trash for the tenth time, asked why the laundry is still sitting in the dryer, or finally given up and done the job yourself, you’re not alone. Chores can